{"id":3896,"date":"2026-03-02T17:57:52","date_gmt":"2026-03-02T17:57:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.worldpumpnews.com\/?p=3896"},"modified":"2026-03-02T17:57:52","modified_gmt":"2026-03-02T17:57:52","slug":"couple-put-baby-up-for-adoption-after-three-months-due-to-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.worldpumpnews.com\/?p=3896","title":{"rendered":"Couple put baby up for adoption after three months due to work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"\u2018We put our baby up for adoption after three months because we\u2019re too busy working\u2019\" width=\"620\" height=\"500\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"w-full object-cover rounded-md\" style=\"color:transparent;background-size:cover;background-position:50% 50%;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-image:url(&quot;data:image\/svg+xml;charset=utf-8,%3Csvg xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg' viewBox='0 0 620 500'%3E%3Cfilter id='b' color-interpolation-filters='sRGB'%3E%3CfeGaussianBlur stdDeviation='20'\/%3E%3CfeColorMatrix values='1 0 0 0 0 0 1 0 0 0 0 0 1 0 0 0 0 0 100 -1' result='s'\/%3E%3CfeFlood x='0' y='0' width='100%25' height='100%25'\/%3E%3CfeComposite operator='out' in='s'\/%3E%3CfeComposite in2='SourceGraphic'\/%3E%3CfeGaussianBlur stdDeviation='20'\/%3E%3C\/filter%3E%3Cimage width='100%25' height='100%25' x='0' y='0' preserveAspectRatio='none' style='filter: url(%23b);' href='data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAoAAAAKCAQAAACEN3D\/AAAAL0lEQVR42mP4z8DAwMiAARgZGJhY+P\/\/PwMDAwPDfwYGBgaGhgYGhgYGAAD9Hwlr5xRngAAAAABJRU5ErkJggg=='\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E&quot;)\" src=\"https:\/\/cms.joe.co.uk\/uploads\/2024\/04\/collage3.png?height=576&amp;width=1024\"\/><!--$--><\/p>\n<p><h2>The internet has been left shocked by one couple&#8217;s decision to put their daughter up for adoption<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose drop-cap \">\n<p>A husband anonymously took to Reddit to explain the situation that led to them putting their daughter up for adoption after just three months.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>He explained in a post on Reddit that his wife, whom he called Catherine, was not interested in their daughter Elizabeth, and that she had returned to work two weeks after giving birth.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>The dad explained that Elizabeth had made their lives &#8216;miserable&#8217; as they are both &#8216;workaholics&#8217;, and that Catherine&#8217;s mum has been doing a bulk of the childcare as she lives with them.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>He said that his wife would only go near Elizabeth when it was clear she was in need, and would generally avoid her if she was crying.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>After three months they decided to put their daughter up for adoption, he explained. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>&#8220;I can remember life without my daughter. I struggle to remember life without my wife,&#8221; he wrote. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>&#8220;I love my daughter, don&#8217;t get me wrong, and adopting her out would be no easy feat. But keeping her could make my wife miserable &#8211; is, actually, making her miserable.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>He added: &#8220;What I want ultimately is whatever is best for Catherine and for Elizabeth, and I honestly think this may be the best option for everyone.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>Catherine&#8217;s mum decided to adopt the child after they made the decision, but Redditors remained shocked by his story.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>One person responded: &#8220;These people sound like robots, or aliens trying out human life. Who in their right mind creates a whole sentient life, does a few months of work to raise them, and then just says &#8216;eh it&#8217;s not for us&#8217;?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>While a second said: &#8220;Basically treated the abandonment of their child as a transactional exchange between two parties.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>However, a third revealed that it is stories like this one that is one of the reasons why they never had kids.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>&#8220;This is my worst fear about having children. But this is also why I never had any and use two forms of birth control at all times,&#8221; they commented.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><!--$--><!--\/$--><!--$--><\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-prose  \">\n<p>&#8220;I was a planned child who was neglected and it still baffles me what my mother was thinking. The lack of guilt here is what&#8217;s getting me. I have shown more emotion than this saying goodbye to\u00a0dogs\u00a0I&#8217;ve fostered for a few days.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--\/$--><\/div>\n<p>#Couple #put #baby #adoption #months #due #work<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The internet has been left shocked by one couple&#8217;s decision to put their daughter up for adoption A husband anonymously took to Reddit to explain the situation that led to them putting their daughter up for adoption after just three months. 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